“How Do I Tell If She Likes Me?”
Steve was frustrated during our Private VIP call. He couldn’t tell if women was interested in him or not. The fears, loneliness and stress of COVID-19 had almost silenced his ‘quiet intuition’! 😱
I asked if I could probe deeper to discover the blind-spot, so that we could reveal ‘the gift’ that Covid-19 was triggering with this issue. Steve agreed… He was game.
We discovered that the reason that he couldn’t tell if a woman was interested in him or not: He didn’t want to know… He didn’t want to feel rejection!
Thus, he was addicted to living in fantasy, in his mind, in his head and on porn. He didn’t want to ‘drop into his gut’ – his knowing, his truth and his instincts… because he may not like the answers he’d get.
Furthermore, he wanted the woman who ‘HE wanted to be in love with’!
He didn’t want to face the reality of whether she’d want him back. He didn’t want to take responsibility for being overweight, not living his purpose and being ashamed of his sexuality. So Steve bypassed this reality, and all the feelings of shame that came with it…
Instead, he wanted a much younger woman who was in shape and who was more successful than he was. This of course wouldn’t be a match energetically, but he didn’t want to face this fact, or feel and heal his wounds…
Steve had ‘erected’ this blind-spot, so that he wouldn’t have to love his body and exercise… So that he wouldn’t have ‘to go for it with purpose’, and heal his ‘sexual shame’!
Frankly, he admitted that he had taken a peek at these ‘truths’, and realized that the pain was so bad and the shame of ‘not knowing HOW to fix it’, kept him in fantasy! That’s why he was so brilliant to work with.
Whilst I can’t see my own blind-spots either, I am a highly trained master coach who has the pleasure of integrating deep emotional triggers, traumas and wounds – ultimately transforming them into confidence, presence and results.
During our private call, I took him through a profound, deep transformative quantum psychology process. I taught him how to navigate these intense emotions… and begin to integrate all that he was rejecting into present moment wisdom, insights and possibilities.
The results over the next few months:
🎯 Steve became an online marketer of his own teachings.
🎯 He let go of his fantasies and started focusing on becoming ‘the one’ for himself.
🎯 He transformed himself into ‘the man’ that his ‘ideal woman’ would want to be with.
🎯 He published his first book and then the second…
🎯 Dropped a few pounds and upgraded his wardrobe.
🎯 He started seeing the true beauty in women of his own age as he started seeing the ‘grandeur of his own being’.
🎯 Steve began to heal his sexual shame about Erectile Dysfunction, regaining his confidence in his overall capacities as a lover.
He literally ‘became sexier’ right before my eyes and is enjoying dating, living his purpose and being the most ‘authentically expressed’ of his life! 😈 😍
I invite YOU to begin your journey, by discovering your Intimacy Blind-spot in my FREE 🎁 Assessment at www.AllanaPratt.com/quiz.
Not only will you get huge value, you’ll feel honored, seen and understood for your journey! You’ll get clarity and direction – it may be one of the most meaningful discoveries that you have about your relationship patterns. 💝
In service to your greatest deepest most fulfilling intimacy. ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🖤
Written 15 May, 2020
Intimacy Expert, Allana Pratt is a global media personality and go-to authority for those who have suffered heartbreak and are ready to live unapologetically, and attract an open-hearted, ideal relationship.
Her vulnerability and courage landed her a featured weekly column on the GoodMenProject, featured as an Icon of Influence, and as a Guest Expert on Huffington Post, People Magazine, Forbes, CBS & FOX and The Jenny McCarthy Show.
This Ivy League grad is the Author of 4 books, has interviewed Whoopi Goldberg and Alanis Morissette, and Hosts the edgy Podcast “Intimate Conversations” where listeners learn how to find the relationship they deserve. A certified coach, Allana was asked by Leeza Gibbons to coach her during Dancing with the Stars. With close to 5 million viewers on YouTube, Allana supports non profits like ‘Rise of the Butterfly’ to end human trafficking while offering private coaching and retreats so that her clients have a thriving intimate relationship with themselves first, which naturally attracts and enhances their ideal partnerships.
Contact Allana directly at: www.allanapratt.com