• 3 Reasons to START a New Relationship During COVID-19

        As an Intimacy Expert for the past 20 yrs, I came across a curious ‘pre COVID-19’ study which claims that you should only see a person once a week, IN PERSON, when you start dating. I thought:  “Jeez, that’s not a lot… but it’s TONS, compared to not being able to see them […]

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  • She took me to her hotel room… Then kicked me out!

        First she invited me to stay with her at her hotel during a business trip but when we got into the lobby, she told me to get my own room. What the hell??   I’ve got your back. Huge love, Allana xoox   1 Sept, 2019   Biography Intimacy Expert, Allana Pratt is […]

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  • Too strong? I’m a bitch. Too weak? I’m a wallflower.

      I wanted my dad’s love and attention. I wanted to feel safe, seen and understood. It didn’t go so well… Dad was an alcoholic. I became a people pleaser extraordinaire and didn’t know there was such a thing as personal growth until my first marriage was beyond the point of no return. Yet two […]

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  • How to deal with a-holes

    This might not seem like the most enlightened question, yet it’s one I get a lot from members of my community. Especially with the coronavirus, people are scared and when we’re scared, we leave our heart, we’re triggered by our emotions, leave the intelligence of the prefrontal cortex that allow for abstract creative thinking and […]

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  • How do I approach women respectfully in a #MeToo world?

    I applaud you for reaching out to desiring to respect women. Thank you.  And I applaud the women who have bravely spoken up in this Movement. There’s so much more to be done.  And I acknowledge the tide is beginning to shift.  Given what we focus on expands, let’s focus on solutions and a new […]

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