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  • I lied. I’m a Barista, not a Mogel. 

        🤔 Question: I met this woman and lied about who I was to impress her. Should I tell her the truth or just let her believe the lie so I can see where this goes. I lied about what I did for a living so she thinks I am some big success instead […]

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  • Alleviating Modern Day Work Stress

        Who doesn’t have stress at work? Nowadays, it might even be that work stress has nothing to do with being “at work” but being home from the office, not having the personal interactions that you were used to at your place of work, not having the tools you had at your fingertips or […]

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  • Covid’s forced me to admit… she’s NOT the One. 

        🤔 Question: My girlfriend and I have been together for six years and she keeps hinting at where things are going. I really don’t see myself marrying her and my mother thinks I can do better. Should I just end the relationship now or am I too far gone to just walk away? […]

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  • You Always Have Everything You Need Within

        I bet you are saying to yourself, “Yeah, right, I really don’t have everything I need! I am working 2 jobs, paying 2 mortgages, my body is in pain, some of my relationships suck and I want the world to be a happier, safer place.” You and many others are feeling this way. […]

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  • Becoming a Minimalist – What’s the Hold Up?

        3 years ago, I downsized from a 3000 square foot home to a small apartment.  I had to clear out 15 years of “stuff” and it was a struggle.  Now I am moving in with my boyfriend and I need to downsize even more because we don’t need two of everything and then […]

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  • What is foreplay? What isn’t foreplay?

          As an Intimacy Expert, people’s immediate curiosity tends to be whether I’m really a sex expert. A somatic sex therapist. A Tantrika. Can I teach them how to give better blow jobs, have bigger orgasms or stay erect longer? Well…. 😘😉 Growing up, I suppose I thought intimacy meant the same thing. […]

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  • When It Rains It Pours

      When the New Year rolled around, I was all set. I had my goals outlined with step by step actions that I needed to take for the next 90 days before I officially retired from the corporate workforce and set out on my own business adventure. I had a good head cold, but I […]

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  • Signs Someone’s Flirting With You Versus Just Being Nice 

         As an Intimacy Expert for the past 20 yrs… and a woman just like you who’s been through the ups and downs of marriage, divorce and dating… Here’s what I’ve found…   People flirt for different reasons. It’s whether they’re empty or full on the inside. It’s a subtle art to tell the […]

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  • When Should You Date Again After a Breakup 

      It’s wise not to push away the pain of a breakup and attempt to mask the pain and fill the void in your heart with a rebound relationship. That’s a recipe for disaster.  However waiting too long to date again can lead to you building walls of emotional unavailability, making up stories and excuses […]

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  • Keeping the Balance and Employee Motivation

        “Train people well enough so they can leave. Treat them well enough so they don’t want to.” ~ Richard Branson There’s no doubt that that poor employee performance can, and often does lead to severe losses for a company and adds to the stress and anxiety managers have to face. When a subordinate […]

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