Spiritual Balance

  • I lied. I’m a Barista, not a Mogel. 

        🤔 Question: I met this woman and lied about who I was to impress her. Should I tell her the truth or just let her believe the lie so I can see where this goes. I lied about what I did for a living so she thinks I am some big success instead […]

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  • 3 Signs You’ve Found Your ‘Twin Flame’

      As an Intimacy Expert for 20 yrs, I am both a master of my craft and an ever evolving student. What I think many people refer to as ’Twin Flames’, is congruent with what the late Dr. Barbara Marx Hubbard coined as, ‘Whole Mate’ Relationships…. An evolution past the ‘Soul Mate’ stage of relationships. […]

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  • 7 Steps to Greater Life Fulfillment 

      “There are many talented people who haven’t fulfilled their dreams because they over thought it, or they were too cautious, and were unwilling to make the leap of faith.” ~ James Cameron. Have you ever asked yourself what it means to be fulfilled? According to the Merriam-Webster dictionary, ‘fulfillment’ means: To succeed in achieving […]

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  • The Magical Gate 

        Close the gate on unhealthy boundaries that you have established. OR Open the gate to new healthy boundaries, free yourself from the negativity of the ‘chained expectations’ and obligations.   It was a sweltering hot day, a humidex of +38 degrees delicious, but despite the intense heat, I knew I needed to get […]

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  • 5 Ways to Inspire Creativity

        Do you realize that you have infinite creativity available to you whenever you desire it?  I know many of us struggle with bouts of being stuck! Right? We have a deadline for some creative project and we sit staring at our paper or screen waiting for some genius of creativity to spring forth […]

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  • Small Ways to Fix an Emotionally Suffocating Relationship

        Emotionally suffocating relationships are when one person is feeding off the other’s attention, affection, time, praise and energy with the following behavior… 🚧 Texting 10 times a day. 🚧 Wanting to know where you are at all times. 🚧 They’re often suspicious of your whereabouts. 🚧 They can’t be alone without needing to […]

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  • Patience…

        It was late summer.  They start draining the lake that time of year in preparation for winter to reduce ice damage to the shorelines.  Time to pull the boat out of the water, clean it up and get it winterized. My youngest was going on an adventure with his father which my oldest […]

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  • HOW JOHN LENNON COULD HELP US FIND A SOLUTION FOR COVID-19

        ‘Cocky’, ‘frustrated’, ‘impatient’ and ‘controlling’ have all been used to describe me on more than one occasion. “Should I wear these traits like a badge of honor? Should I showcase my humility, amenability, patience, and liberalness to the world?” “You’re the ‘Thank God I’ guy…”, comes at me all the time, often attached […]

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  • Kindness changes people

      My STORY ABOUT KINDNESS… I had a beautiful opportunity to live out kindness in the grocery store. I was in line to check out at the grocery store when this man who was in front of me was trying to get his debit card to work to pay for his groceries….it kept declining. I […]

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  • Learning to Appreciate Stress…

      Learning to appreciate stress, which is usually viewed negatively, can help balance your emotions.  Stress can actually have some surprising benefits. Let’s look at how we can consider stress from a different perspective.  Long-lasting stress and anxiety doesn’t serve anyone. However, there are some limited instances of short-term stress that can be beneficial.  Stress […]

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