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  • Covid’s forced me to admit… she’s NOT the One. 

        🤔 Question: My girlfriend and I have been together for six years and she keeps hinting at where things are going. I really don’t see myself marrying her and my mother thinks I can do better. Should I just end the relationship now or am I too far gone to just walk away? […]

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  • You Always Have Everything You Need Within

        I bet you are saying to yourself, “Yeah, right, I really don’t have everything I need! I am working 2 jobs, paying 2 mortgages, my body is in pain, some of my relationships suck and I want the world to be a happier, safer place.” You and many others are feeling this way. […]

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  • Becoming a Minimalist – What’s the Hold Up?

        3 years ago, I downsized from a 3000 square foot home to a small apartment.  I had to clear out 15 years of “stuff” and it was a struggle.  Now I am moving in with my boyfriend and I need to downsize even more because we don’t need two of everything and then […]

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  • What is foreplay? What isn’t foreplay?

          As an Intimacy Expert, people’s immediate curiosity tends to be whether I’m really a sex expert. A somatic sex therapist. A Tantrika. Can I teach them how to give better blow jobs, have bigger orgasms or stay erect longer? Well…. 😘😉 Growing up, I suppose I thought intimacy meant the same thing. […]

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  • When It Rains It Pours

      When the New Year rolled around, I was all set. I had my goals outlined with step by step actions that I needed to take for the next 90 days before I officially retired from the corporate workforce and set out on my own business adventure. I had a good head cold, but I […]

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  • Signs Someone’s Flirting With You Versus Just Being Nice 

         As an Intimacy Expert for the past 20 yrs… and a woman just like you who’s been through the ups and downs of marriage, divorce and dating… Here’s what I’ve found…   People flirt for different reasons. It’s whether they’re empty or full on the inside. It’s a subtle art to tell the […]

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  • When Should You Date Again After a Breakup 

      It’s wise not to push away the pain of a breakup and attempt to mask the pain and fill the void in your heart with a rebound relationship. That’s a recipe for disaster.  However waiting too long to date again can lead to you building walls of emotional unavailability, making up stories and excuses […]

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  • Keeping the Balance and Employee Motivation

        “Train people well enough so they can leave. Treat them well enough so they don’t want to.” ~ Richard Branson There’s no doubt that that poor employee performance can, and often does lead to severe losses for a company and adds to the stress and anxiety managers have to face. When a subordinate […]

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  • How to effortlessly be charming

        Can you imagine how your life would become even more magical if you could improve your capacity to be charming?  But, trying too hard to be charming actually DESTROYS charm! 😲  True charm is about being yourself… Totally at peace with the good, the bad and the ugly.  Thus, the first key would […]

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  • How to Deal with a Flirty Husband

      🤔 Question:  I am struggling with my wife’s decision to apply for a management position where I work. The thing is, my personality at work is different and I don’t think she would appreciate it. I have a tendency to flirt and banter with the women in the office. It is my place and […]

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