4 Ways to give ‘The forehead kiss’
While it may sound simple, all actions can be boiled down to being either motivated by fear or inspired by love.
💋 Degrading: If someone is insecure and wants to look good, feel enough, appear superior or in control… their forehead kiss could feel degrading.
If someone does this to you and it creates more disconnection than connection, you could simply say, Thank you for your kiss. It would make me even happier if you would kiss me even more slowly and sensually next time. That makes me feel even more connected to you. How do you like to be kissed?
This ought to start a phenomenal vulnerable delicious conversation taking your kissing to the next level of fulfillment.
💋 Awkward: If someone is ashamed of their sexual expression, wobbly in their public displays of affection… their forehead kiss might feel awkward, childish or corny.
If someone does this and it kills your libido, You could simply say, Thank you so much for your kiss on my forehead. It would turn me on if you would slowly kiss my forehead even more sensually next time, then slowly on my cheek and then slowly on my neck. You make me feel so beautiful, safe and adored when you do that. Would that work for you? How do you like to be kissed when we’re in public and when we’re alone?
Again, this kind of acknowledgement and direction and curiosity will spark deeper connection and authenticity. It’s important to make somebody timid feel safe, but also to acknowledge that perhaps in the past they were made wrong and it might be a wobbly subject. Keep your heart open and don’t judge, conclude or assume. Just seek to understand as you speak of taking kissing to the next level. Of connection.
💋 Sexy: If someone is deeply in touch with their sensual expression… their forehead kiss would feel sexy or erotic.
If this is the case then aren’t you lucky! We can always take great things to ‘Glorious’. So perhaps you might say, thank you ever so much for that ‘Exquisite’ sensual kiss on my forehead. It opens me deep inside and makes me feel even more connected to you. I can’t wait to get home and experience even more. How do you like to be kissed?
Sensuality is such sacred territory and you can invite. Hours of exploration, connection and delight. It can be a space of deep healing and erotic pleasure. Just kissing for hours can make you feel so safe, understood, aroused and home with your partner.
💋 Kind: Lastly, if someone is intending to make another feel safe, seen and understood… their forehead kiss might feel sweet or kind.
This is such a glorious gift for someone to be so present, in tune and receptive with how you’re feeling that they kiss you in a way that makes you feel safe and sound all the way to the Core. You might say, Thank you for being there for me. Thank you for knowing exactly how to kiss me to make me feel like everything’s going to be okay. Thank you for having my back and helping me that exhale and Trust you and trust life. I’m so grateful for you.
And you just might want to stay silent and just drink in that kiss for several moments. Deep vulnerability and rich intimacy is precious, rare and to be cherished and grown through consistent practice and appreciation.
Intention is everything because everything is a vibration, everything’s energy. Trust how the kiss makes you feel and be willing to invite touch in a way that makes you feel safe, honored or enlivened. And if you are the kisser of foreheads, take a beat, a breath, a pause and choose to the best of your ability to be inspired by what love would do.
There are times when even the best of intentions to kiss is inspired by love, yet fear still runs the show, past rejections get in the way, attachment to the outcome destroys the flow. These are called Intimacy Blind-spots and everybody has them, including me 😜
That’s why I developed a simple, quick yet effective Intimacy Blind-spot Assessment you can take at www.AllanaPratt.com/quiz to discover your intimacy blind-spot and ultimately breakthrough so you can get ‘the kissing you desire’… and so much more.
Appreciatively and deliciously, ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
Written on 20 June, 2020
Intimacy Expert, Allana Pratt is a global media personality and go-to authority for those who have suffered heartbreak and are ready to live unapologetically, and attract an open-hearted, ideal relationship.
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