Mental Balance

  • Tips on how to calm yourself under pressure…

        “Never be in a hurry; do everything quietly and in a calm spirit. Do not lose your inner peace for anything whatsoever, even if your whole world seems upset.” ~ Saint Francis de Sales.   This past week could have been viewed as chaotic for me. My granddaughter was born on Saturday. I was […]

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  • Your Livelihood Spirit Balance… Your Choice if it’s Out of Whack…

            So yesterday in the office, a colleague of mine was complaining about how overworked he was telling me he hasn’t had a free weekend in over 2 months. That’s absolutely absurd. Of course the Mindset Transformation Coach in me kicked in… Management doesn’t force you to work extra time “unpaid”. Management isn’t going […]

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  • What People Who Always Land Second Dates Do Differently

      Many people experience that it’s not easy to land a second date. 🤔 What do people who always land second dates do more often?  🤔 What do they do differently during and post-first date?  🤔 What can you do to increase your chances of getting a second date? Right out of the gate I […]

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  • Patience…

        It was late summer.  They start draining the lake that time of year in preparation for winter to reduce ice damage to the shorelines.  Time to pull the boat out of the water, clean it up and get it winterized. My youngest was going on an adventure with his father which my oldest […]

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  • Achieving Goals While Avoiding Distractions

        “You can always find a distraction if you’re looking for one.” ~ Tom Kite Your goals are set.  You’re visualizing them through to fruition. Unfortunately, distractions can get in the way of progress!  Too often, even the slightest distraction ends up being the difference between achieving your goals and missing the mark. It’s […]

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  • Your Body Communicates With You Through Sickness

      I used to be a functional medicine practitioner, my specialty is thyroid and autoimmune diseases. One of the reasons why I had very high success rates was because I helped my patients understand their sickness and what it was telling them. An autoimmune disease is turned on because of an emotional and/or physical trauma, […]

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  • The Dreaded Phone Call…

        I was at work maybe 15 minutes.  My ex called to tell me that he had just dropped off our younger son at my place.   While on the office phone, my cell phone rings and it’s our oldest son. “Hey buddy, what’s up?”  “Mom, I’ve been in an accident.”  With a phone on […]

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  • How to Get over Someone You Never Dated.

          Have you ever met someone who is devastated that someone didn’t like them back, that someone rejected their affections, that someone wouldn’t give them the time of day… yet they’re still talking about it? Weeks, months or even years after?  What’s wild about getting over someone you never dated, is that we […]

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  • I Live On A One Way, Dead End Street!

        Years ago, I was in New York City during the Christmas Holiday — Typical New York with the hustle and bustle of city life.  People rushing to go to work, someone yelling because he was cut off by a car and another was on the street begging for money. As I thought about […]

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  • Routines and Habits

      Routines and habits are essential to having consistency and balance in our life. I’ve been reevaluating mine this past week and have updated my morning routine.   Morning routines are quite common, and most people are pretty set in what they do when they wake up. Morning routines are great for getting the day started […]

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