Social Balance

  • The Magical Gate 

        Close the gate on unhealthy boundaries that you have established. OR Open the gate to new healthy boundaries, free yourself from the negativity of the ‘chained expectations’ and obligations.   It was a sweltering hot day, a humidex of +38 degrees delicious, but despite the intense heat, I knew I needed to get […]

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  • 3 Ways to Keep the ‘Honeymoon Glow’ Alive

      New relationships tend to be fueled by ‘honeymoon hormones’ and often fizzle out when you literally come down from the ‘high’. Suddenly, you realize that you’re dating your mother or father! Ha! 😱 I’m talking about a TRUE authentic and loving ‘honeymoon glow’. It’s a way of life that’s sustainable and real, not the […]

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  • How One Florida Man Dissolved Overwhelm During Covid-19

        Gerry showed up to half of the group calls. Constantly drained, overwhelmed, behind, self sabotaging with a lot of weed, hanging with people who were apparently cool, yet not honoring him. Settling for women who didn’t appreciate his soul, who were ‘in it’ just for the attention. He agreed that my weekly coaching […]

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  • 5 Ways to have a healthy relationship with your Mom

        After 20 yrs of intimacy coaching and being a student of the heart, equilibrium and intimacy… Our relationship with our Moms, the Divine Mother, Pachamama and Mother Gaia, is so fundamental for our fulfillment, sense of safety, approval and belonging! If we really looked hard, everyone’s mom is most likely a combination of […]

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  • “How Do I Tell If She Likes Me?”

        Steve was frustrated during our Private VIP call. He couldn’t tell if women was interested in him or not. The fears, loneliness and stress of COVID-19 had almost silenced his ‘quiet intuition’! 😱 I asked if I could probe deeper to discover the blind-spot, so that we could reveal ‘the gift’ that Covid-19 […]

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  • Tips on how to calm yourself under pressure…

        “Never be in a hurry; do everything quietly and in a calm spirit. Do not lose your inner peace for anything whatsoever, even if your whole world seems upset.” ~ Saint Francis de Sales.   This past week could have been viewed as chaotic for me. My granddaughter was born on Saturday. I was […]

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  • Small Ways to Fix an Emotionally Suffocating Relationship

        Emotionally suffocating relationships are when one person is feeding off the other’s attention, affection, time, praise and energy with the following behavior… 🚧 Texting 10 times a day. 🚧 Wanting to know where you are at all times. 🚧 They’re often suspicious of your whereabouts. 🚧 They can’t be alone without needing to […]

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  • Is ‘Ghosting’ happening more or less during COVID-19 for Single Women?

        Ghosting is a huge problem for my clients who are looking for love.  When someone ceases all communication or contact without warning and subsequently ignores all attempts to reach out or reconnect, it’s devastating. The unclosed loop keeps spinning. Self doubt can seem overwhelming and so debilitating that many give up on love.  […]

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  • Single Successful Mom “Do’s” of Dating During Covid-19

        Joanne is a smart successful single mom. Pre Covid-19 she was frustrated about consistently attracting B+ men. With the pandemic she, like so many, felt fear of what was happening. Overwhelmed with her child home from school 24/7 and the loneliness of not being able to go out and meet men for a […]

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  • HOW JOHN LENNON COULD HELP US FIND A SOLUTION FOR COVID-19

        ‘Cocky’, ‘frustrated’, ‘impatient’ and ‘controlling’ have all been used to describe me on more than one occasion. “Should I wear these traits like a badge of honor? Should I showcase my humility, amenability, patience, and liberalness to the world?” “You’re the ‘Thank God I’ guy…”, comes at me all the time, often attached […]

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