Social Balance

  • How to Get over Someone You Never Dated.

          Have you ever met someone who is devastated that someone didn’t like them back, that someone rejected their affections, that someone wouldn’t give them the time of day… yet they’re still talking about it? Weeks, months or even years after?  What’s wild about getting over someone you never dated, is that we […]

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  • Kindness changes people

      My STORY ABOUT KINDNESS… I had a beautiful opportunity to live out kindness in the grocery store. I was in line to check out at the grocery store when this man who was in front of me was trying to get his debit card to work to pay for his groceries….it kept declining. I […]

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  • How to Allure Him With Class as a Work of Art… Not as a Piece of Meat

        Allure is such a loaded word… the quality of being powerfully and mysteriously attractive or fascinating… charm, tempt.   When we think of a baby being alluring… it’s innocent and adorable.  Yet when we think of a woman doing that… we often assume it’s laced with manipulation, using her sexuality as a commodity… taking […]

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  • 4 Relationship Sanity Secrets During Quarantine

      After being an Intimacy Expert for the past 20 yrs working with couples in conflict and the wounds of singles who have endured divorce… The key to long term intimacy comes down to respect.  It’s totally normal and natural not to agree on everything. It’s even OK not to value the same things… Yet […]

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  • 3 Reasons to START a New Relationship During COVID-19

        As an Intimacy Expert for the past 20 yrs, I came across a curious ‘pre COVID-19’ study which claims that you should only see a person once a week, IN PERSON, when you start dating. I thought:  “Jeez, that’s not a lot… but it’s TONS, compared to not being able to see them […]

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  • She took me to her hotel room… Then kicked me out!

        First she invited me to stay with her at her hotel during a business trip but when we got into the lobby, she told me to get my own room. What the hell??   I’ve got your back. Huge love, Allana xoox   1 Sept, 2019   Biography Intimacy Expert, Allana Pratt is […]

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  • Finding Inner Balance in a COVID-19 Socially Distanced World

        With the Coronavirus, aka COVID-19, our world has completely changed over the past few months in terms of how we connect because of social distancing mandates.  The world that we live in now, is ‘hyper-connected’ through technology.  All but our frontline heroes, and even some of them, are now working from home.  Most […]

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  • Corona Consciousness – ‘Boiling Frogs’

      Officials in hazmat suits, sticking needles into a young child’s arm to test for the Coronavirus, conjure up horrific images from the movie ‘Contagion’ or ‘Outbreak’. Let’s face it… sudden contagious disease and the prospect of death is terrifying! Viruses are very real, and we’ve all been sick with one at some point in […]

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  • Too strong? I’m a bitch. Too weak? I’m a wallflower.

      I wanted my dad’s love and attention. I wanted to feel safe, seen and understood. It didn’t go so well… Dad was an alcoholic. I became a people pleaser extraordinaire and didn’t know there was such a thing as personal growth until my first marriage was beyond the point of no return. Yet two […]

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  • How to deal with a-holes

    This might not seem like the most enlightened question, yet it’s one I get a lot from members of my community. Especially with the coronavirus, people are scared and when we’re scared, we leave our heart, we’re triggered by our emotions, leave the intelligence of the prefrontal cortex that allow for abstract creative thinking and […]

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