Intimacy Expert Advice

  • How to Tell Your Wife you Need More From Her in the Bedroom

      🤔 Question: My wife is incredibly impulsive everywhere, except in the bedroom. How can I get her to share that spontaneity with me between the sheets?   Join ThankGodi Blogger and Intimacy Coach, Allana Pratt, as she shares advice on this ‘sensitive’ topic. 👇👇👇 You got this! 🤗 Learn more by taking my Intimacy […]

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  • Blame Talk vs Conscious Loving Communication

      🤔 Question: I found out that my husband has been having an affair. But for religious purposes, my family does not believe in divorce. How do I continue my marriage to a man when he has laid in another woman’s bed?   Join ThankGodi Blogger and Intimacy Coach, Allana Pratt, as she shares advice […]

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  • How to Stop an Argument Before it Happens

      🤔 Question: What is the easiest way to break to your wife that you were having an affair, it’s over, and you want to work things out? I just can’t see a scenario of this conversation going well.   Join ThankGodi Blogger and Intimacy Coach, Allana Pratt, as she shares what is the best […]

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  • Crazy (Or Not So Crazy) Things People Do, When They Are Fired

      🤔 Question: My wife just lost her job and now she wants to have another baby. I say this with nothing but love but I don’t think she is in the right state of mind. What is the best way to navigate this conversation?   Join ThankGodi Blogger and Intimacy Coach, Allana Pratt, as […]

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  • Is my wife cheating on me?

        🤔 Question: Coach Allana, I don’t trust my wife and I don’t know why. I guess I believe she is just too good to be true sometimes and,no one this perfect is 100% faithful. I have even tried to catch her cheating and thought about setting her up. I know it is wrong, […]

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  • Home Alone is Making me Crazy!

        🤔 Question: I am tired of being at home, working from home, and just being alone. This self-isolation is driving me crazy but the paranoia of defying it and just being free is equally strong. Do you have any solutions to help people who are aware of the dangers but just don’t care […]

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  • I lied. I’m a Barista, not a Mogel. 

        🤔 Question: I met this woman and lied about who I was to impress her. Should I tell her the truth or just let her believe the lie so I can see where this goes. I lied about what I did for a living so she thinks I am some big success instead […]

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  • What is foreplay? What isn’t foreplay?

          As an Intimacy Expert, people’s immediate curiosity tends to be whether I’m really a sex expert. A somatic sex therapist. A Tantrika. Can I teach them how to give better blow jobs, have bigger orgasms or stay erect longer? Well…. 😘😉 Growing up, I suppose I thought intimacy meant the same thing. […]

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  • Signs Someone’s Flirting With You Versus Just Being Nice 

         As an Intimacy Expert for the past 20 yrs… and a woman just like you who’s been through the ups and downs of marriage, divorce and dating… Here’s what I’ve found…   People flirt for different reasons. It’s whether they’re empty or full on the inside. It’s a subtle art to tell the […]

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  • When Should You Date Again After a Breakup 

      It’s wise not to push away the pain of a breakup and attempt to mask the pain and fill the void in your heart with a rebound relationship. That’s a recipe for disaster.  However waiting too long to date again can lead to you building walls of emotional unavailability, making up stories and excuses […]

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