Equilibration

  • Your Livelihood Spirit Balance… Your Choice if it’s Out of Whack…

              So yesterday in the office, a colleague of mine was complaining about how overworked he was telling me he hasn’t had a free weekend in over 2 months. That’s absolutely absurd. Of course the Mindset Transformation Coach in me kicked in… Management doesn’t force you to work extra time “unpaid”. Management isn’t going to […]

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  • What People Who Always Land Second Dates Do Differently

      Many people experience that it’s not easy to land a second date. 🤔 What do people who always land second dates do more often?  🤔 What do they do differently during and post-first date?  🤔 What can you do to increase your chances of getting a second date? Right out of the gate I […]

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  • Patience…

        It was late summer.  They start draining the lake that time of year in preparation for winter to reduce ice damage to the shorelines.  Time to pull the boat out of the water, clean it up and get it winterized. My youngest was going on an adventure with his father which my oldest […]

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  • Is ‘Ghosting’ happening more or less during COVID-19 for Single Women?

        Ghosting is a huge problem for my clients who are looking for love.  When someone ceases all communication or contact without warning and subsequently ignores all attempts to reach out or reconnect, it’s devastating. The unclosed loop keeps spinning. Self doubt can seem overwhelming and so debilitating that many give up on love.  […]

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  • Achieving Goals While Avoiding Distractions

        “You can always find a distraction if you’re looking for one.” ~ Tom Kite Your goals are set.  You’re visualizing them through to fruition. Unfortunately, distractions can get in the way of progress!  Too often, even the slightest distraction ends up being the difference between achieving your goals and missing the mark. It’s […]

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  • Single Successful Mom “Do’s” of Dating During Covid-19

        Joanne is a smart successful single mom. Pre Covid-19 she was frustrated about consistently attracting B+ men. With the pandemic she, like so many, felt fear of what was happening. Overwhelmed with her child home from school 24/7 and the loneliness of not being able to go out and meet men for a […]

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  • Your Body Communicates With You Through Sickness

      I used to be a functional medicine practitioner, my specialty is thyroid and autoimmune diseases. One of the reasons why I had very high success rates was because I helped my patients understand their sickness and what it was telling them. An autoimmune disease is turned on because of an emotional and/or physical trauma, […]

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  • HOW JOHN LENNON COULD HELP US FIND A SOLUTION FOR COVID-19

      ‘Cocky’, ‘frustrated’, ‘impatient’ and ‘controlling’ have all been used to describe me on more than one occasion. “Should I wear these traits like a badge of honor? Should I showcase my humility, amenability, patience, and liberalness to the world?” “You’re the ‘Thank God I’ guy…”, comes at me all the time, often attached to […]

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  • How to Get over Someone You Never Dated.

          Have you ever met someone who is devastated that someone didn’t like them back, that someone rejected their affections, that someone wouldn’t give them the time of day… yet they’re still talking about it? Weeks, months or even years after?  What’s wild about getting over someone you never dated, is that we […]

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  • I Live On A One Way, Dead End Street!

        Years ago, I was in New York City during the Christmas Holiday — Typical New York with the hustle and bustle of city life.  People rushing to go to work, someone yelling because he was cut off by a car and another was on the street begging for money. As I thought about […]

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