Personal Growth Blogs

  • The Magical Gate 

        Close the gate on unhealthy boundaries that you have established. OR Open the gate to new healthy boundaries, free yourself from the negativity of the ‘chained expectations’ and obligations.   It was a sweltering hot day, a humidex of +38 degrees delicious, but despite the intense heat, I knew I needed to get […]

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  • 3 Ways to Keep the ‘Honeymoon Glow’ Alive

      New relationships tend to be fueled by ‘honeymoon hormones’ and often fizzle out when you literally come down from the ‘high’. Suddenly, you realize that you’re dating your mother or father! Ha! 😱 I’m talking about a TRUE authentic and loving ‘honeymoon glow’. It’s a way of life that’s sustainable and real, not the […]

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  • Discover Inner Peace Through Equilibration

      “My faith helps me understand that circumstances don’t dictate my happiness, my inner peace.” ~ Denzel Washington The search for inner peace, is was what started me on my journey so many years ago. It was this search that brought me to where I am today with an understanding of the process of equilibration. […]

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  • 5 Ways to have a healthy relationship with your Mom

        After 20 yrs of intimacy coaching and being a student of the heart, equilibrium and intimacy… Our relationship with our Moms, the Divine Mother, Pachamama and Mother Gaia, is so fundamental for our fulfillment, sense of safety, approval and belonging! If we really looked hard, everyone’s mom is most likely a combination of […]

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  • Small Ways to Fix an Emotionally Suffocating Relationship

        Emotionally suffocating relationships are when one person is feeding off the other’s attention, affection, time, praise and energy with the following behavior… 🚧 Texting 10 times a day. 🚧 Wanting to know where you are at all times. 🚧 They’re often suspicious of your whereabouts. 🚧 They can’t be alone without needing to […]

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  • Your Livelihood Spirit Balance… Your Choice if it’s Out of Whack…

            So yesterday in the office, a colleague of mine was complaining about how overworked he was telling me he hasn’t had a free weekend in over 2 months. That’s absolutely absurd. Of course the Mindset Transformation Coach in me kicked in… Management doesn’t force you to work extra time “unpaid”. Management isn’t going […]

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  • Patience…

        It was late summer.  They start draining the lake that time of year in preparation for winter to reduce ice damage to the shorelines.  Time to pull the boat out of the water, clean it up and get it winterized. My youngest was going on an adventure with his father which my oldest […]

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  • I Live On A One Way, Dead End Street!

        Years ago, I was in New York City during the Christmas Holiday — Typical New York with the hustle and bustle of city life.  People rushing to go to work, someone yelling because he was cut off by a car and another was on the street begging for money. As I thought about […]

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  • Tomorrow I will Clean Up My Act!

      “I partied my butt off, pigged out, and drank myself under the table for my birthday. Man, I could not believe how horrible I felt… So I vowed to clean up my act. So I’m here to detox my body for a little bit but before I start, I’m going away to party with […]

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  • She took me to her hotel room… Then kicked me out!

        First she invited me to stay with her at her hotel during a business trip but when we got into the lobby, she told me to get my own room. What the hell??   I’ve got your back. Huge love, Allana xoox   1 Sept, 2019   Biography Intimacy Expert, Allana Pratt is […]

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